This is a guest post by Mark Powers. Rock out! And, uh, thank ya very much.
Trying to be anyone other than yourself just doesn’t work.
As a musician, I’ve heard singer after singer waste their time and energy in an attempt to sound like someone else. One of my best friends used to try his darndest to emulate Eddie Vedder. But, try as he might, there’s only one Vedder. He would only come across as yet another wanna-be rocker trying to sound like he’s worthy of singing with Pearl Jam. Nope. Fail. That will never get you very far. Once my friend made the conscious decision to relax and just be himself onstage, that authenticity was quickly apparent to audiences and he became an overall better entertainer.
The same holds true for writing. It’s perfectly acceptable to have your influences, mentors and blogging idols. What’s not recommended is pretending to be those writers, rather than speaking with your own personal inner voice.
Here are the 2 keys to being yourself and writing accordingly:
1. Remember, even the king of the Kings is still just an impostor.
Another friend of mine was recently named [by Graceland] the Ultimate Elvis Presley Tribute Artist. While that’s certainly an enormous honor, and has increased his number of gigs and payscale, there’s one little problem. He’s mentioned on more than one occasion that, outside of the lip-curlin’, pelvis-pumpin’ Elvis-impersonation scene, he can’t get anyone to take him seriously. He’d love to be performing other styles of music when he’s around home, but it’s nearly impossible. He can shake, rattle and roll. But he can’t shake the public’s perception of him. He can’t be himself.
You’re a writer. Be you. Don’t even consider trying to mimic somebody else too closely. Don’t cuss simply because Naomi Dunford gets away with it (ED: curses), and people seem to think she’s cool. If you’re the quiet type, don’t spaz out at the beginning of every video blog because Gary Vaynerchuk does. That’s Gary being Gary (ED: i.e. hardcore!) He’d be the first to agree. And don’t clutter your posts with keyword phrases just because that what’s the SEO overlords command.
Write as you speak. And use your natural vocabulary. Don’t say “lackadaisical” if “lazy” would normally be the word to come out of your mouth.
2. Answer this: “Are You Sincere?”
No, I won’t go scaring you away by bursting into a rousing rendition of Andy Williams/Elvis Presley lyrics. But I will beg of you to write content that genuinely interests you. Topics that you’re passionate about. Ideas, products and happenings that have you crawling out of your skin with excitement. Things that you’d be blabbing on about to friends anyway, even if you didn’t have an online following (or were trying to grow one). As I mentioned earlier, your authenticity will shine through and capture your readers. If, on the other hand, you’re wildly ecstatic about building a website that focuses on dressage horse training, do not expend your resources researching and writing Thesis affiliate reviews and posts about guerilla social media tactics. Sure, that may generate some traffic to your site. But keep two things in mind:
A) That traffic won’t be staying long. When a reader interested in your latest Twitter trick swings by, he may stick around to read that particular post. But once he sees that the rest of the site is smattered with “equestrian competition” tips and “horse ballet” videos, he’s more than likely outta there! He’s been duped. There’s no other content to interest him. He won’t be subscribing to your RSS feed.
and B) Your valuable [and likely, limited] time could have been spent creating more fulfilling, high-quality, creative work. Posts that actually interest you. Writing about what you love.
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Cliché as it may be, there is only one you. And I know that you have something original to say. Your own, uniquely fresh, outlook on the world. That’s what I want to read. Not you pretending to be Seth Godin or Chris Guillebeau.
When you’re honest with yourself and write just as honestly, that transparency will be noticed. People will want to read because they’ll value what you have to say, rather than struggling through the words of yet another regurgitating nincompoop.
But, speaking of regurgitating nincompoops, I’m not letting you out of here without singingsomething. And what’s more fitting than a rock ballad? I leave you with a few lines from Bryan Adams, which I imagine also reflect the sentiment of much of the reading public:
You know I’ll never go. As long as I know. It’s coming straight from the heart.
Have integrity. Be genuine. Reap the rewards.
… and comment below!
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Mark Powers is a world percussionist and world traveler who blogs for creative-types at PowersPercussion.com. In addition to performing and teaching, Mark has released Ritimista, a world percussion play-along CD and is former co-holder of the Guinness World Record for Longest Drum Roll by a Group.
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Thanks, Mark Powers, for this wonderful guest post! Great lesson for us all!
And thanks to you for allowing me to contribute to your killer site, Mark!
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Great post. This is an interesting subject for me because my natural accent is Mancunian (from Manchester, England) but I forcibly dropped it when I immigrated to Canada as a teenager just to ‘fit in’.
This ‘camouflage’ accent is a hard habit to break. It’s funny to because I really do just automatically imitate the way others around me speak. E.g. when I travel to the States I tend to sound more American.
In your post you talk about being authentic in creative works. For me the ongoing challenge is to achieve that on a daily basis. Struggling through a compromised, mid-Atlantic accent still feels like every word I say is a lie.
I’ve found a solution of sorts which is to let my natural accent emerge in video blog pieces (coming shortly). That will give me an opportunity to be more authentic and I believe will also train others to hear me as I really am. I’m looking forward to starting that project.
This post helps me see this is the right thing to do.
Thanks,
Michael
Hey, Michael- thanks for the comment! Funny that you mention that you imitate the people around you . . . I’ve often said the same thing, even with just the various accents that exist here in the US. When moving out west, I often tried to disguise my stereotypical Midwest accent. But even when it’s not intentional, I find myself imitating the speech of places I travel to. Everytime I spend a stretch out in Boston or New York, I catch myself slipping into some East Coast vowels and dropping some “R”s. (Gotta find a place to pahk the cah, so I can meet my friend fuh coifee) Thanks again- look forward to seeing/hearing those video blogs!
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Great post!
“Don’t say ‘lackadaisical’ if ‘lazy’ would normally be the word to come out of your mouth.”
In my case, lackadaisical would probably trump lazy most of the time. I have a vocabulary like Beast from the X-Men, compounded by a muddled Kentucky/Valley Girl accent that sounds like you put Paula Deen in a blender with Hurley from LOST. ["Dude! Y'all need to extricate yourselves from that predicament!"]
Also, it must be the day for cheesy 80s music in blog posts, because my latest features some excellent Irene Cara action from Flashdance.
“sounds like you put Paula Deen in a blender with Hurley from LOST”
Hilarious- you’ve got me dying of laughter over here, Kat! Thanks a ton for reading and commenting . . . and . . . er . . . long live the cheesy 80s!
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I love this post because I have a half finished one that says the exact opposite. It’s funny because I agree and disagree with you on this one. I don’t know if this will make any sense but the point of my unfinished post is that you can begin figuring out who you are until you figure out who you are not.
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Ooh, Bill . . . very glad you said this, because I agree with you, as well.
Two thoughts . . .
1. As a musician, I think that it is extremely important to study and emulate the legends of your instrument and/or genre before you can evolve beyond that and create that unique voice. But once you have, I think it’s then important to “own it,” take what you’ve developed and run with it. That (while a culmination of those influences and your past experiences) will be your truly original voice, and yours alone. I believe the same rings true for us in our writing. Do copy . . . but don’t get stuck there!
2. As writers (and humans), I think that it is common- and perfectly acceptable- to contradict ourselves (and each other) once in a while. It’s all part of growth and the learning process!
Thanks again, Bill- super happy that you brought this into the discussion!
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I totally agree. I think “owning it” is the difference between wanting to be something (like a writer or musician) and being it.
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My first visit to the site! Love the ideas here.
Anyway, when you read and comment on blogs regularly it’s hard to stick to your own style especially as you pick up features / tips and ideas about what works well for them. But of course, they may not work well for you.
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So poignant, I’m starting to realize myself that instead of getting caught up in a style, often my best posts are those that come from my heart. Great points to inspire me to move on from the mundane.
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Thanks a ton for the comment, Ayngelina! But, as I’m already a reader of your blog, I can attest to the fact that your writing (and adventurous life) is far from mundane . . .
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Thanks Mark! I’m new to the blog writer’s world and I’m having a blast, even if only 4 people are reading my blog. I write about the music I love and the world as I see it, and it doesn’t matter to me if I’m the only hardcore Icicle Works fan left on earth, I’ll still write about them! Thanks for the inspiration…
Laurie in Michigan
Hi, Laurie, and congrats on making the decision to start blogging! Wow . . . Icicle Works? That’s going way back. I love it!
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