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The only knot every thoughtwrestler needs to know

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Tie a knot and hang on

When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. —  President Franklin D. Roosevelt

We work hard and we play hard (and sometimes the two are the same thing).  We make stuff, even if the stuff is just pixels and electrons.

Sometimes the work is easy.  Sometimes it seems impossible.

Sometimes it just looks easy.

When you’re doing creative work, there’s two main times that you’re going to want to have that knot tied at the end of the rope:

  1. When you’re doing the work itself, when it makes you want to tear your hair out, scream, cry or otherwise express your anguish and frustration.
  2. When you’re trying to share your work with the world and build an audience.

Things rarely happen on their own and they never really happen it a short period of time.

Sometimes you have to endure; sometimes you just have to wait for things to happen, like farmers wait months to harvest food after planting seeds and caring for them.

The rope is a symbol of struggle, of an act that takes time, strength and endurance to complete.  It’s also a symbol of rescue and help.  Without that knot at the end, to keep you safe, sometimes the rope will slip out of your hand and leave you to fall to your doom.

Do you have a knot ready at the end of your rope… just in case?

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Winter Wonder-land

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I wonder if this winter is ever going to end.

I wonder if my kids will still be making up snow days in July.

I wonder why my soon-to-be 7 year old daughter added “jetpack” to her birthday list.

I wonder when I’m going to find the time to work on my novel.

I wonder if the novel just got off to a bad start, or if I’m just a bad writer.

I wonder why traffic was backed up so badly on the bridge this morning.

I wonder if I am too old or even have the right kind of brain to learn analytics and get really good at it.

I wonder if anyone will want to listen to that podcast I want to do with my husband.

I wonder if I can convince said husband to do the podcast with me.

I wonder if the next time the elevator stops working at work, if I’ll be in it.

I wonder when I stopped singing (except for that BlogWorld thing.)

I wonder if Mark regrets asking me to post here, when I invariably forget till the last minute before my post is due.

I wonder how much it costs to fly to Aruba from Louisville.

I wonder if there’s any good material in all these wonderings for a story.

And I wonder if any of you like this post?

Labour Day – Salt of the Earth edition

Let’s face it:  most of us have it a lot better than we think we do.

On this Labour Day 2010, I’m trying hard to be thankful for a lot of things:

  • I’m thankful that I don’t have the kind of job that puts me in harm’s way.
  • I’m thankful I don’t have to spend my days outside at unthinkable heights or depressing depths.
  • I’m glad that I work (and live) in environments with ample heat, coolness, access to good water and food.
  • I’m happy that I don’t have to worry about gunfire, explosions or riots.
  • It’s also good that I get a variety of tasks and assignments to work on, I’m not micromanaged, and overall I’m treated with respect.

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Millions upon millions of people aren’t so lucky.  And yet many of us who celebrate this Labour Day weekend are directly (or indirectly) dependent on people who work in far worse conditions than we do.

Many of them are what we call “the salt of the earth”:  people who are humble and lacking pretension.  They do their jobs, they make do as best they can, they live quiet lives and the cycle repeats indefinitely.

Salt of the Earth is also a track from the Beggar’s Banquet album by the Rolling Stones.  Mick Jagger, in interviews has said that it was an absolutely cynical view of the working class.  Jagger thought they had no chance to advance in life due to political and social systems that were designed to keep them in their places.

I’m sure that he’s right, at least in some parts of the world.  Hopefully not everywhere.

We all deserve better than that.

Let’s raise the virtual glass in a toast to everyone who keeps the world going in the hope that they get a well earned day of rest on this Labour Day and, at the very least, they get our thoughts and thanks.

Salt of the Earth

(M. Jagger/K. Richards)

Let’s drink to the hard working people
Let’s drink of the lowly of birth
Raise your glass to the good and the evil
Let’s drink to the salt of the earth

Say a prayer for the common foot soldier
Spare a thought for his back breaking work
Spare a part for his wife and his children
Who burn the fires and who still till the earth

And when I look into the this faceless crowd
A swirling mass of gray blue
Black and white
They don’t look real to me
In fact, we all look so strange

Raise your glass to the hard working people
Let’s drink to the uncounted heads
Let’s think of the wavering millions
Who need leading but get gamblers instead

Spare a thought for the stay-at-home voter
His empty eyes gaze at strange beauty shows
And a parade of the gray suited grafters
A choice of cancer or polio

And when I look into this faceless crowd
A swirling mass of grays and
Black and white
They don’t look real to you
Or do we look too strange

Let’s drink to the hard working people
Let’s think of the lowly of birth
Spare a thought for the rag taggy people
Let’s drink to the salt of the earth

Let’s drink to the hard working people
Let’s drink to the salt of the earth
Let’s drink to the three thousand million
Let’s think of the humble of birth

Eliminating your internal broadcast delay

Jordan CooperThis is a guest post of Jordan Cooper of NotAProBlog.com.  His bio appears at the end of this post.

In radio and television, broadcast delay refers to the practice of intentionally delaying broadcast of live material. Typically used in the case of unexpected profanity, it’s also commonly employed for other undesirable glitches such as technical problems, coughing fits or downright blooper reel worthy moments. Enacted as a compromise between the corporate suits who manage the bottom line and the creative types who inhabit the airwaves, this 7 second delay allows them to work within a system that respects both their needs and alleviates their fears.

The same systematic process occurs within all of us inside our brains.  Whether it be the stroke of a key, the shift of a pen or the words that flow out of your mouth, we’re always censoring ourselves in some regards. The output is never as pure as the original thought. Either knowingly or unknowingly, our brain is conducting an ongoing battle between creativity and rationalization.

Notice the difference in your speech when hanging out with friends and family as opposed to business associates. Don’t you feel truly more like “you” in the first case, but seem to be playing of a toned down version of “you” in the latter? This is broadcast delay at work.

It’s this involuntary self-censorship that separates your ultimate truth from the output you give to the world. Closely resembling self-doubt, it mimics this behavior as it eats away at your confidence level. As you start second guessing every step in the creative process of your art, eventually it erodes your brain to the point in which these neural connections fail to fire any longer.

Don’t give in to this delay. Fight against it by always trusting your instincts. They’re usually correct.

In radio and television, the corporate suits that control the airwaves err on the side of safety. For the sake of their advertisers and their bottom line, their job depends upon the rationalization of their efforts. To deviate means risk, and their role doesn’t reward it.

As the broadcast delay embraced as a necessary buffer in their minds, they may continue to play it safe with impunity. This doesn’t make them subservient to their fears, but fails in allowing them to reach a level of creativity that others otherwise would.

The on-air talent, on the other hand, are the bastions of the creative process. Doing their job effectively depends on the virtual lack of all rational thought and unmitigated devotion to the “moment”. To deviate means compromise and homogenization, yet their role does indeed reward risk and polarizing behavior substantially.

In this instance, the broadcast delay is a distraction, an obstacle, a shield. It’s the safety net of a tight rope walker, although the best in any field creatively work without a fail-safe whatsoever. This safeguard essentially robs those of the uncontrolled facets of the ”moment”, the very aspect that fuels the output of their brilliance.

Eliminating the 7 second delay in your brain brings you closer to finding your unique voice. It allows your mind to be open to infinite possibilities, tangents of thought and roads that no one has ever traveled. Along the way there may be bumps, mistakes made and apologies given, but the risk will be rewarded much more fruitfully than toeing the common line and playing for a stalemate.

So make that choice now. Are you a corporate suit or an on-air personality?


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Jordan Cooper is a professional stand-up comedian with 15 years performance experience. He currently teaches aspiring comedy writers how to unlock their creativity at the Underground Comedy School in Louisville, Kentucky. You may also visit his personal blog or follow him on Twitter @NotAProBlog